Friday, 20 December 2024

What I've been reading in December

 This is a book that I was lent by a friend.



We had both read, and enjoyed, an earlier book (The Miniaturist) by this author so it was interesting to see how that story continued. 

The book is set in Amsterdam in 1705 and the main character, Thea Brant, has just turned eighteen.  The Brandt family are in financial trouble and Thea's Aunt is positive that the only way out of their problems is for Thea to marry a wealthy man.  Thea's mother died in childbirth and has had a sheltered upbringing but she discovers a love of the theatre and also falls in love with a stagehand who works there.  How can she tell her family that she has no intention of marrying anyone other than Walter?

Her Aunt Nella has her sights set on a suitable gentleman and cannot understand why Thea is refusing to marry him when he has such good prospects and the family's future prosperity relies on a good marriage.  

Then out of the blue Thea receives two anonymous gifts.  The first a miniature figure with a remarkable resemblance to her secret lover and the second a tiny house, intricately made.  (This echoes the storyline of the previous book) These are then followed by a blackmail note saying that the writer knows of her affair and requires payment to avoid disclosure which would bring shame to her family. 

Upon discovery of who is the blackmailer Thea is struck by a strange illness which drives her family to despair but it appears to be a symptom of the grief she is feeling. When she starts to feel better she feels that she has no alternative but to marry Nella's choice of husband in order to bring stability to her family.

But things do not go according to plan and at the end of the book we find that sometimes you have to return to the place you tried to escape from in order to make a new beginning.

All in all a good book.  Probably best if you have read the previous book but not essential and the ending definitely leaves scope for a third book in the series.


The next book is The Trouble with Goats and Sheep



I was drawn to this book as it is set in England in the scorchingly hot summer of 1976.  I have such strong and happy memories of that summer.  I was 18, I'd just left school and the weather was absolutely glorious.  The author of this book has captured the atmosphere of that time perfectly.  The tiniest details are exactly as I remembered them, right down to the little china animals, Whimsies, that the girls collect. The feeling of the unexpected heatwave right down to the smells of the tarmac in the heat.

The book revolves around the disappearance of Mrs Creasey, one of the residents of The Avenue, a cul de sac of eight houses where everyone knows everyone else.  As her absence lengthens the neighbours become increasingly concerned not only for her well being but because she was the one person they all confided their secrets to.  

Grace and Tilly are two young friends who find the disappearance intriguing.  Has she been murdered or simply decided to go away?  After a discussion with the vicar they decide that they need to find if God can be found anywhere in the Avenue and will ask around for evidence.  

Meanwhile, the adults are speculating about the possible involvement of Walter Bishop, an eccentric lonely man who lives alone and was once accused of taking a child from their home and abandoning her in the park.  His behaviour does nothing to allay their suspicions.  We have all read of such people being wrongly accused of crimes and it is easy to see why Walter is the target of their beliefs.  Grace and Tilly see a different side of him when they go to question him on the subject of whether God is living in The Avenue.

This isn't a particularly dynamic book and I felt the ending left a few questions unanswered.  But I did enjoy it and it was nice to be transported back to those hot and endless days of the summer of 1976.

Monday, 16 December 2024

Me on Monday

 Well it would seem that time is flying by so fast that I completely missed last Monday! So here I am on this Monday recovering from yesterday. It is a family tradition that we have a pre-Christmas family lunch on the weekend closest to Paul’s birthday so we had everyone here yesterday. It was also the Sunday that our local Round Table group drive around with Santa’s sleigh and he is scheduled to go past our house about 6pm. Let’s just say that excitement levels were running very high! It seemed that 6pm was never going to come and then we heard the music playing in Santa’s sleigh


The children were so excited - oh if only you could hold onto that magic.  The squeals of delight must have been heard throughout our road, except for Olive who suddenly felt a bit unsure and sought refuge in her daddy's arms.

We had quite a lot of socialising last week, an art exhibition for Paul's paintings, a dinner with my Zumba ladies, lunch with my knit and natter group, a viewing of Rosie's nativity show and it was also Paul's birthday so I am grateful for some spare time just to settle and enjoy some quiet time this week.  

I am booked in to help in Leo and Rosie's classes on Tuesday with some craft activities so that will be like stepping back in time.  For 10 years back in the 1990s I was a classroom assistant, little did I know I'd be back again (just for an afternoon) 35 years later!

Have a good week x


Monday, 2 December 2024

Me on Monday

I have a nice day to myself today and I guess I really ought to spend the hours wisely!  

First off I think I will write the Christmas cards which need to go in the post.  I don't know what the situation regarding Post Offices is like where you live but in my town it is not always good.  They shut our main post office and instead we now have a post office counter in several small, local grocery stores.  It sounds like a good idea to help those who don't live close to the town but in reality it doesn't really work.  There is always a long queue in the shop closest to me, only one person at the counter serving and if that person is ill, at lunch or having a mid morning break the counter has to close.  

So it was with trepidation that I headed towards another shop to buy my Christmas stamps, post a couple of overseas bits and send off the parcel of premature baby hats to the Ambulance Charity.  Imagine my delight to find that there were two people working at the counter and only two people ahead of me in the queue.  I practically danced out the shop - it felt like a big win!

Our next knit and natter project is to make 15cm squares to be put together to make lap blankets for the palliative end of life ward at our local hospital.  Whilst I thoroughly enjoy doing crochet for myself and family, it is nice to think that we are doing something that will add a little comfort to someone in need. So I think I will spend a little time this afternoon making one of those to add to the collection.

How is your Christmas shopping going?  I definitely don't have everything yet but I do have ideas of what I will be getting people which is the first step!  Let's just say that some people in our family are easier to buy for than others

We don't have our decorations up yet; that is a job for next weekend.  Traditionally we put the tree up on the weekend before Paul's birthday although we may have to bring that forward a day as he has some paintings in an exhibition on Saturday so needs to be there and then on Sunday it is my Zumba Christmas Masquerade Ball.  I probably ought to try on the outfit I am planning to wear!  Here's a sneak peak of part of it ...




Friday, 29 November 2024

#WBOYC - November

 The end of the year is hurtling towards us - it's time for another WBOYC


Oh my goodness, another month has bitten the dust - let's see how it unfolded

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Nattering and knitting - I'm still enjoying being part of the Knit and Natter group that meets on a Friday and we have had a special project on the go this month - see below!

O

Olive had her birthday party which had a Frozen theme.  They hired out a small hall near their house which was a great idea as it is amazing how noisy a group of three year olds can get.


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Volunteering to make teeny, tiny hats for premature babies.  Our local ambulance service put out a call for them as apparently they like to keep a supply of them in their vehicles for when they are called out on an emergency call that involves premature babies. They are so tiny,  and a bit fiddly to make but in the space of about 10 days, our Knit and Natter group made 75, not bad for a group of six knitters!



E

Entertaining - it was our turn to host an Indian takeaway evening with three other couples.  We all used to live in the same street and still get together about twice a year.  

M

Meals out.  Oh my waistline is going to pay for this!  Four meals out so I need to eat super healthily at home to compensate.

B

Birthdays - Rosie turned six and she was so excited about it!  Her present wish list included Sylvanian Family playsets.  Her mum absolutely loved those when she was that age - 32 years ago - it feels like deja vu! 

E

Extra early/late birthday celebrations. We went out for a meal with friends and at the end they brought out a small chocolate dessert with a candle and sang happy birthday to me. My birthday is in March! I did try to explain that to the waiter but he insisted I ate it 😊 The lady at the next table to us, who was celebrating her birthday, was very amused! She did get her birthday dessert after her friends spoke to the waiter!


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Rosie really did have a birthday. Six years old! Maybe I should have taken the dessert home for her 😆


So that was my month, and here it is 1 Second Every day



Please pop over to the other Deb and see how much she has crammed into her month. She certainly fits a lot more than me into her months!



Monday, 25 November 2024

What I’ve been reading in November

 My daughter lent me two books she had been given this month so neither were ones I picked off the shelf myself.


This book was apparently made into a film with Julia Robert’s in the main role. Amanda and Clay rent a beautiful Airbnb home in a remote area of Long Island. Their family are having a wonderful holiday enjoying the luxurious house when one evening an older couple arrive saying that they are the owners of the house. They have driven in a panic following a major power cut at their other home in New York. They ask to be let in to shelter in the guest annexe until power is restored in their apartment.

Amanda is dubious but they don’t see how they can refuse. The following morning Clay ventures out and gets horribly disoriented and finds himself lost despite feeling that he hasn’t actually travelled far.  Their children have gone exploring in the woods, following some deer which appeared around the trees.

That is all I can tell you as I was not enjoying the storyline and decided to stop reading. I had a feeling that something supernatural was behind the mystery and I didn’t like the style of writing.

I then turned to the other novel, 



Stella and her family grew up on the tiny island called Evergreen and lived there until Stella was 11 when her parents suddenly decided to return to the mainland without ever giving a reason why.The book alternates between 1993, when they were still living there and present day where the discovery of a body has been found close to the garden of Stella’s family’s house.

Stella cannot resist returning to the island to discover whose body it is although she is not warmly welcomed back by the locals. She finds out that the victim was someone who was friendly with her elder sister and is horrified when her brother confesses to the murder. Stella does not believe him and is determined to find out the truth. However, it is obvious that someone does not want her digging up the past.

I enjoyed this book, the storyline was unexpected and it is interesting to see the other characters through the eyes of Stella as a child compared with Stella as an adult.

Monday, 18 November 2024

Me on monday

 Please do not judge me but I have a confession to make. 

I started watching Christmas films on Netflix this week. 

I know, it’s too early, it’s not even December yet. But I was home alone, the weather was drab and I wanted someone on in the background while I knitted. These films are always a bit predictable and always have a happy ending but there’s something quite comforting about them.

We had three other couples over for an Indian takeaway meal on Saturday which means that my whole house is tidy and cleaned and I have no housework needed at all (for a few days anyway!) so I am planning to go shopping somewhere today to buy some Christmas cards and a couple of little surprise gifts for Paul’s birthday.

There are a few social events on the calendar this week. Paul’s meeting a friend today, we are both going to lunch with three other friends on Tuesday, I’m meeting up with my ex work colleagues on Thursday then we are out for a meal with friends on Friday. I may need to increase my exercise levels after all that eating out!

It’s Rosie’s birthday on Thursday - six years old. Six going on sixteen 😆 Rachel has organised a couple of surprises for her which I think she's going to love. It's so lovely to see such excitement.

The weather is set to turn colder here this week and I have my newly made hat ready and waiting.  How's it looking where you are?  It's really going to feel like November here as the week goes on. Have a good week x


Monday, 11 November 2024

Me on Monday

 It is a gloriously sunny warm autumnal day here this Monday. The kind of day that makes you feel energised and ready to keep busy! I took this photo yesterday while on our dog walk and we all enjoyed the crunching of the leaves underfoot and the enjoyment of scattering the crunchy carpet beneath the trees in the misunderstanding that one of us could run up a tree to catch a squirrel. Guess who that was 🤔


So a busy, productive morning so far with the weekly shop done, garden tidy ups in progress, a warming soup made out of the left over half a butternut squash from Sunday lunch yesterday, and batch cooking a ragu to put three meals in the freezer. All that before 1pm! 

Can you answer a question for me? I have a voucher for extra loyalty card points next time I buy petrol.


Use instore only. How on earth could I buy a tankful of petrol online? 😆