Tuesday, 1 September 2026

Celebrating in August

 I don’t know what makes me feel older, the fact that I have a 40 year old daughter or that I have a ten year old grandson! So we have had two big celebrations within the space of five days. My daughter’s friends arranged a couple of surprises for her, one local and the other a meal out in Mayfair. We had a more low key meal out at a local pub, we couldn’t go anywhere too classy as we had a little puppy with us!


Fortunately that little puppy wasn’t able to go to our grandson’s birthday party so we stayed home with him and escaped the noise and mayhem of 14 ten year olds running riot at a football party. My daughter’s friend makes fantastic balloon displays which make a great centrepiece for a party.



Life will be returning to ‘normal’ this week as schools return and routines reset. Our youngest grandchild starts school this week and it will be the first time in nine years that I haven’t had one day a week looking after someone. The way they are spaced out it meant that as one started school, the next one needed ‘nanny daycare’. We are trying to take advantage of this freedom by organising a few days away but can’t make up our minds where to go!

My Zumba has resumed and next week Pilates starts again, I have missed having structures to my weeks! My Pilates teacher has just sent details of the Christmas party which seems crazy but the time will soon go and if you don’t organise something early, all the best venues are fully booked.

Our heatwave ended quite suddenly which was a relief but we’ve definitely entered autumn now. Time to ditch the open toed sandals and now having to remember to keep a cardigan/jacket to hand when I go out just in case! I am quite fed up with the clothes I’d been wearing during this very hot spell and will no doubt look through my wardrobe and realise that I don’t have anything suitable for the transition from very hot to cooler 😉

So it is a warm welcome to September, it always feels like the start of a new year. I guess the years of having children at school and then working in a school myself have engraved September into a time to reset routines.  Now to have a look and see what warm weather clothes I still want to wear!



Thursday, 20 August 2026

Where did I disappear to?

 Hello friends, it’s been a while hasn’t it?

The heatwave I spoke about in my last post continued right up until a couple of days ago and today we finally have some much needed rain. The heat has been unbearable and I am so fed up with wearing the same things day after day simply because they are cool to wear! I had to use the windscreen wipers this morning for the first time in weeks, I never thought I'd be so pleased to see rain.

Since I last posted we have been on holiday to Portugal.  My sister has a holiday home there and she kindly let us use it for a week in the middle of July.  It was lovely to go back there, it's such a laid back place to spend time and it really is a home from home.  We went with our daughter and grandchildren and they had a lovely time, collecting sea glass in the rock pools, making sandcastles on the beach, swimming in the pool and just having holiday fun.  Today our son is travelling out there to spend a week and then when he returns, it will finally be my sister's turn to go.  They would normally spend quite a few weeks each year out there but she hasn't been able to travel since her accident earlier this year.   She had shattered her thigh bone in a fall and is only just feeling confident enough to fly out there. 

Then, following our return, a young 'man' named Bertie joined our family.  


He is a Cavapoo but we think he will be smaller than our darling Coco was.  He is our daughter's dog but as they are living with us while waiting to find their new home he's taken over our house!  He's very cute but I think he may have a little bit of shark in his gene pool as boy can he bite when he's over excited.

Hopefully I will be here a little more frequently; I have missed browsing the blogs which used to be part of my daily routine.  

Time for me to go and find out what everyone else has been up to while I've been gone!



Sunday, 5 July 2026

Be careful what you wish for

 Me - a few years ago ... "I wish it was warmer here in the summer"...

Well, I got my wish.  But I really should have qualified just how high I wanted the thermometer to go!  Oh boy it's been hot here. So hot that my friend who lives in Florida sent me a message to make sure we were all ok here.  On the day that she sent her message we had much higher temperatures than she did. We had a week of cooler, more comfortable days but the forecast is for the heatwave to return this week.

So on the hottest weekend of the year, my fridge freezer decided that it was time to call it a day.  It could not hold its temperature and I didn't trust it to keep as cold as it should. At first I put it down to the heat but then we wondered how old it was. We definitely had it already when we had our kitchen replaced and that was 10 years ago, then I found the instruction manual in a cupboard and I had written the date of purchase on it.  2010.  That makes it 16 years old and we have probably had our money's worth out of it. So last week involved online research and a couple of trips to stores to make a final decision.  The new one arrives this week so I just have to hope that the existing one limps along until then.  

This all happened after we had put in an order for a new bed mattress so it has been an expensive month already and it's still only the first week!  

Have I finished that crochet top?  Don't be silly!  It's been too hot to have crochet on your lap (my excuse) but I did do some at Knit and Natter.  I think I just have one more row of the bottom ribbing to do and then twenty million ends to weave in!

I became irresistible to some evil bitey insects last weekend.  The bites were SO annoying.  One was behind my knee and it was impossible not to aggravate it as I walked during the day not to mention wearing leggings for my zumba class.  There were a couple of nights when I found myself making a cold wet flannel to lay over it while I tried to get to sleep.  I don't want to tempt fate but ... they seem to have gone.  We went to friends for a meal on Saturday and I just knew that we would be sitting outside as it was a glorious evening.  I wore long flowing cotton trousers and a lot of insect repellent (probably overpowered my perfume!) and I came home unscathed!

We went for a lovely long walk on Saturday.  Even though it was sunny we were able to find shade along the way.  I feel lucky to have such countryside so close to our home.  



Does anyone have ideas for tasty, easy and light summer meals that I can do for a change?  I feel like we are in a rut and I'm fed up with the salads that I tend to make.  Every day I dread the 'What are we having for dinner tonight?' questions!  Tomorrow is crab linguine and we always seem to have teriyaki salmon on a Tuesday but any suggestions for Wednesday onwards will be gratefully received!

Have a good week x


Tuesday, 16 June 2026

A new image

 The last couple of times I have been to the hairdressers I have tentatively mentioned that I wondered if it is time to embrace the natural colour in my hair.  All last remaining auburn tones have long gone and I have to admit that my colour is now … predominantly grey. I haven't had an all over colour in my hair for many a year now and tend to have some coloured lowlights put through it.  So we decided to make the lowlights fairer and I've been having less of them and as I looked in the mirror of the salon and we had the 'what are we doing today? conversation, I thought 'now's the time'. So as a transition plan I had my hair cut quite a bit shorter and had blonde highlights run through it followed by a toner treatment.  I wasn't sure about it at first but I don't think I've ever had so many compliments about my hair!  I'm pleased I went for it and will be even more pleased when I get to the point of not having any dye/beach put though it and effectively halve the cost of the appointment when I only need a cut rather than a cut and colour!

Have you watched the BBC drama Mother of All Cons? It's a true story that had us both engrossed.  Oh my goodness.  I won't spoil it by divulging the outcome but what the mother did was unbelievable.  Of course our normal tv schedules are  being affected by the football World Cup but thankfully a lot of the games are on quite late at night due to the time difference so we are still getting to see most of our normal viewing.  I've also started watching Love Story - John F Kennedy Jr and Carolyn Bessette.  I don't know too much about the storyline but I've enjoyed the first episode and hope that it will be good.

Last weekend we went into town and walked around the main town park, Castle Gardens.  Way back in history, pre 1066, there was a castle here called Waytemore Castle and there are still some remains in the park.  But in the 45 years I have lived here, I have never climbed the steps to the top to see the view over the town so we ventured up there and enjoyed the views over the whole of the town. 



I am close to finishing my crochet top that I have been making for far too long!  I am determined to get it finished now otherwise the summer will be over and it won't be warm enough to wear!  Here's an update and whilst it looks wearable I can assure you that there are hundreds of ends on the inside that need weaving in before I can wear it out in public!



You can see a couple of ends have escaped and found their way into the photo! I am determined to get this finished soon, but then comes the question - what next?





Monday, 1 June 2026

Farewell to May

 Well, May certainly went out on a high!  High temperatures that is.  We have officially had a heatwave this last week.  Temperatures hit the 30s and whilst we love to see the sun, we also desperately seek the shade once the temperature goes up too high!  You can imagine that our newly installed solar panels have been very useful - I don't think we've used any electricity from the grid since they were installed and have even exported power each day when our battery was full.  

We tried out to a new Indian restaurant on Friday evening and went back to our friends' house afterwards for coffee and it was so lovely to be sitting out in the garden until it became dark.

Our knit and natter group had met earlier in the day and we also sat outside from 11 - 3 although I did nab a seat in the shade.  Somewhere between these two outdoor events I managed to become a target to some kind of biting insect and have spent the weekend trying (unsuccessfully) not to scratch a nasty bite on my ankle. 

Yesterday my zumba instructor organised a walk and picnic in Hatfield Forest.  It is about 20 minutes drive from where we live and is a beautiful place to spend a sunny day.  It's now owned by the National Trust but was originally owned by King Harold. Some of the trees are over 1000 years old.  It became a royal hunting forest around 1100 and has over 3500 species of wildlife.  Some of the huge rare breed cows that roam around are a bit intimidating but I found this little family particularly cute!



After a walk around the lake we got out our picnic chairs and had lunch together under a large tree in the shade.  Adri had arranged for a guitarist to come and play for us and it really was a lovely, relaxing way to spend the afternoon.

So, June has begun in a similar heat although it isn't forecast to last much longer. Schools are back after their May half term week off and normal routines will now resume.  I have had a message to say that the balance is due on our flights to Portugal which much mean it is just over six weeks until we go 😎

Do you have holiday plans for the summer?  



Thursday, 21 May 2026

Peony picking

 One of the best parts of this time of year is the abundance of flowers appearing in the garden.  The spring bulbs have died down and the borders are gradually showing signs of colour. The weigela in our garden is particularly beautiful this year.  It seems to be one of those shrubs that gets bigger and better the longer you have it.  

The television is full of programmes about the Chelsea Flower Show and you realise how much time and effort goes into ensuring the plants are at their peak at exactly the right time.  Not that I am comparing my garden with the Chelsea Flower Show!

Yesterday we popped over to a Flower Farm for a walk amongst the blooms.  They are a 'pick your own' farm, specialising in peonies, one of my favourite flowers.  I couldn't resist picking some to bring home, hopefully we chose buds which will open out beautifully as the days unfold.  One is showing its colours beautifully already.



As much as I loved the peonies, I was so pleased to see that they were also picking ranunculus.  These are such gorgeous plants and I am thrilled with the bunch we picked.



I tried growing them from bulbs one year but after much anticipation, the slugs got to enjoy them before I did.

Now, apparently the weather here is about to change for the better.  Mid to high 20s in the next few days 😎  If you're looking for me, you may find me in the garden!

Monday, 18 May 2026

What happened to April?

 I am the epitome of a bad blogger!  I read other people's blogs, fully intending to leave a comment when I have more time and then fail to return, or write a post of my own.  A school report would definitely say 'must try harder'!

So let me entice you back to my blog with a little taste of where I went at the end of April.  Benvenuto in Italia!  I had a city break to Venice.  It was absolutely magical and I would say to anyone that has the chance to go, that they must get on that plane/train/boat and visit.  What a beautiful city






We were transferred from the airport by Vaporetta which was a little scary at first as the water was pretty choppy around the airport but as we reached the lagoon and found ourselves sailing down the Grand Canal, it was eye wateringly beautiful.






The quirkiest place we visited was what is advertised as the most beautiful book shop in the world.  Acqua Alta.  Maybe not the most beautiful, but definitely unique!  At the rear of the shop are piles of old books which have been damaged by floods which have been built to make steps.  The books are displayed in imaginative ways; the central display is in an old gondola.




Since we came home we have had solar panels fitted to our roof.  It was my husband's project, he is very environmentally aware and keen to do all he can to help minimise our carbon footprint.  Bearing in mind that we live in a part of the world which is not known for a sunny climate I did wonder how effective they would be but I am amazed by how much solar energy we are capturing.   In the last two days we have not had to draw any electricity from the grid, it is all being generated by the panels.  It does make you very aware of how many electrical products you use on a daily basis!  

Right, time for me to pop and visit a few blogs that I’ve neglected to visit in the last few weeks.

Ciao!